Understanding relationship requires understanding the inter-relationship of three organs: the heart, the brain and the respective sex organs (penis for the men and clitoris/vagina for the women). While the heart is, in this case, being used symbolically to represent emotion, the brain represents reason and the sex organs represent physical desire/lust. For centuries philosophers, poets and behavioral scientists have, at times, left out the sex part of the equation (probably because of the general taboo on anything sexual) and it is for that reason, I submit, that we are all misguided. For w ...