Of all those available online daters, the separated individual could be a big risk and not a good choice in some respects. This is a person who may or may not go on to become truly available for a meaningful relationship. Since they have not yet finalized their marriage through divorce, they may be inclined go back to their spouse and cause you to experience a deep hurt if you fall for them.        It is important to understand the dynamic of their marriage. For example, if the wife left the guy and he is heartbroken, but she realizes that she sh ...

Speaking of single, many are actually single in the truest sense of the word (never before married). The younger the dating site, the more "single" folks. By the time daters get into their forties, most of them have been married for the first time. You have to ask yourself, why is this person single (never before married) at forty or fifty something? The answer may well be that they are still single because they are smarter than the rest of us, or they may be fussy bachelors or bachelorettes who have not yet found their princesses/princes. Just because someone isn’t married by forty does ...

SINGLE, SEPARATED, DIVORCED, WIDOWED, LECHER, PREDATOR          There are six categories of people on dating sites: single, separated, divorced, widowed, lecher and the predator. Each one comes with a higher probability of certain risks and rewards depending upon their category.   When you first start dating you may be a bit excited about meeting someone and this may translate into not using your head when it comes to choosing from all those choices you find on e-dating services. It’s like a kid in a candy shop not know ...