Profiles are how you and all the other members of Internet dating sites describe yourselves. There is both an art and a science to manufacturing your profile. The science is the easy part. You figure out what year you were born and do a simple math calculation to come up with your age. For your weight you use the scientific method: stand on an accurate scale and see what the reading indicates. This number is called your weight. You probably noticed that you don’t have to understand advanced mathematics nor be a rocket scientist to come up with these very objective answers for you profile. ...

My niece decided to sign me up for Jdate, an ethnic online dating service. If you have ethnic dating services available, and assuming you like, respect or gravitate toward your ethnicity go for it, otherwise you may meet many people with very little in common.If you are fed up with your ethnicity, try a new one. You may meet some very interesting people or just realize you like your own kind. Remember life is a journey. Also remember that just because you are on a journey, it doesn't’t mean you aren't’t responsible for your actions and you may pay dearly for making stupid choices. Bein ...

We all have our stories to tell. The stories of how we were suddenly thrust into the dating world after many years of marriage or comingling. Before we can begin the healing and the journey of dating, its best to tell your story, but not to your dates. They often find your stories filled with anger, frustration, hate and animosity. Let's face it. No one wants to date people harboring those indignities. So tell your story to your shrink, your bartender, your best friend or your pet. Here's my story. You can use it for comparison, and maybe you won't even need to tell your story o ...

Everywhere I turn, they’re either too old or too young. Goldilocks has got to be out there, but finding “just right” has been elusive so far. To find one my age that’s in good condition is like finding a rare antique living in an undiscovered attic, sheltered from the affects of time.   To consider younger seems better on the surface, but too young and there is no commonality. And I can forget the ones who want me to have their child. Don’t get me wrong; I want to go through the motions of having their child, but there is no way I want to have any ...