It is really difficult to tell if a man or a woman you meet on Internet dating sites is “good.” Good here is meant to be all encompassing: honest, kind, thoughtful, conscientious, responsible and you can include any other traits you can think of that mean “good.” If you think that a thumb nails size photo and a self-description is any indicator that you are finding someone who is “good,” you are being rather naive. It is your job to figure out “good” in your emails, texts, phone conversations and finally on dates. You must be rat ...