You may find yourself away from home and horny. I don’t think e-dating will help you in this regard because older dates aren’t looking to jump into bed without a commitment that includes at least six e-mails, three telephone conversations, an informal meeting for coffee, and a subsequent dinner. That rule applies to most of the women. The guys are looking for a commitment too: just show up. You see, the guys don’t need much of a commitment, so if you women find yourselves away from home and horny, get in touch with a guy on an e-dating service, be very forward and you’ll score.

Seriously, you may find yourself away from home in a place you go to often for business or family visits and there is no reason you can’t find a companion. And who knows, it could turn into a romance if all the stars are lined up just right or it could be a casual sex kind of deal.

You do a search for people in a radius of a few miles from where you are staying and bingo! You get pictures of hundreds of people looking for some type of connection any where you might be.

You have to approach these people a bit differently than if you live in their neighborhood. I’d suggest a sob story: I’m here in town on a business trip and find myself feeling very lonely. I realize a far away relationship is not likely to blossom, but I sure could use a friend to talk to. If you would be so kind as to accompany me to get a cup of coffee, I would appreciate your kindness.

Who could resist this type of request?

If you really want to spice it up add: In my state of loneliness, I found your picture, and I felt an almost immediate attraction. You are so pretty and you remind me of my mother! How about a cup of coffee? This is the way to a woman’s heart. It works for guys too. If I got a request like that from a nice woman, I’d start grinding the coffee beans.

This type of relationship is not usually going to be much, but if all you want is a fling, go for it. However, there actually are sites where you can find casual sex companionship while away from home, and they are for swingers and all sorts of men and women looking for nothing more than sex. This can be as blatant as sites offering prostitution, or as simple as some very liberated people looking for a fling.

This type of encounter involves many risks, the most lethal one being disease.  Then there is the chance you'll get caught in a police sting or you could even get rolled (that means beaten up a robbed). Be careful out there, and try to avoid getting people involved relationships that can be hurtful to satisfy your lustful needs.