Unless you have been part of an arranged marriage, there is a good chance that chemistry had some influence on your becoming a couple. You saw a picture (like onInternet dating sites), it was love at first sight, or some such chemical phenomenon took place the moment you cast eyes upon your beloved. Sure there are those cases where it took time for the chemical reaction to take place, but there is that inexplicable force that drives you to the ones you find attractive. We are not talking here about the complexities of sexuality that, at times, may have nothing to do with the chemistry o ...

Why would you even open this article? What is the chance that you could get Ebola on a date? According to our medical authorities there is no chance that this could happen to you unless you fly to West Africa and go on that kind of date, but in America - no way. Naturally there are no Internet dating services to meet West Africans in West Africa like there are dating services to meet dates online from China, Russia and most every other country. You can even have your foreign date come to visit you here in the good old USA if you are willing to pay their expenses. And who knows what exotic d ...

This question may be better addressed by the sages, the poets or the novelists of renown, than by a simple than by a simple chapter on a book on dating. Really! Can not a shallow book provide such guidance? Well, yeah. The answer is most certainly, yes! You can fall in love again if you don’t do anything drastic in the throes of lost love. Those who take the “Juliet” way out are obviously not going to fall in love again, however, those who take the “Jane” way out (that’s Jane Doe who shall represent most reasonable people) should know for sure that they ...

Regardless of whether you are dating, living together or married, there is no substitute for kindness if you wish to have a strong, long lasting comfortable relationship. This is a magical component of successful living. It even applies to how you treat your neighbors, colleagues, employees and friends. It is actually a rather simple rule, so why do so many people have trouble being kind, especially to their loved ones. There's a funny expression, "I would really appreciate it if you would treat me like a stranger." The expression was even the title of a song. Now why would ...

The golddigger is looking for security in the most exaggerated manner. While many daters look for finacial security (women more than men), or for domestic security (men more than women), they usually are willing to make a commitment for the security they want. The golddigger is an opportunist who is looking for the best deal at the moment. An dedicate golddigger will drop you if a better deal shows up. A golddigger is, by definition, the term associated with women while men looking for financial security are more often described as dirt bags. Golddiggers come in all shapes and looks ...

Most folks looking to date AGAIN are doing so because they have divorced or have become widowed. While as young adults, dating was an ongoing process looking for the right one, now it has become a search for another right one from an entirely different pool of candidates. Back then most of us dated a variety of potential mates until we made our choice. After that commitment, not much was thought about the possibility that we would have to repeat the process. After all, wasn’t it until death do us part? Oh, yes, for some it was death that took us apart. In either case, you now find ...

Forbidden fruit – the formula for perpetual hot/romantic love...or why illicit love affairs and hard-to-get sex are so hot. Exploring a rather odd way to keep it exciting. The all illusive quest for eternal passionate love (a.k.a. endless desire combined with romantic love) may be found by understanding of two concepts: wanting what you can’t have, also known as the forbidden fruit and deprivation - a.k.a. not getting enough of your most precious desires. Interestingly, both of these strong forces governing passion are the basis of illicit love affairs. Think about it: whe ...

To have a serious discussion on dating and not talk about sex means you are not having a serious discussion. Certainly, there are those who, for one reason or another, are either asexual or without libido, and as such, have no interest in sex. For the other four billion folks, let's talk. Dating and sex has a long history if you count Adam going out with Eve on their first date. To limit our discussion, let's go back a mere seventy to eighty years. Dating was much different back then, especially with regard to sexual behaviors. You just weren't likely having sex ...

We explored the possibility that women have an estrous cycle. In that chapter I boldly stated that women most certainly do have an estrous cycle even though science states that the cycle is associated with female mammals of a lower order than humans. To understand women and estrous you should go back to that chapter. The next most obvious question is, "Do men have an estrous cycle?" After all, the scientific definition only mentions female mammals. If you examine the facts, men, too, have hormonal cycles that govern their sexual interest and activity. It's just a lot more ...

It is really difficult to tell if a man or a woman you meet on Internet dating sites is “good.” Good here is meant to be all encompassing: honest, kind, thoughtful, conscientious, responsible and you can include any other traits you can think of that mean “good.” If you think that a thumb nails size photo and a self-description is any indicator that you are finding someone who is “good,” you are being rather naive. It is your job to figure out “good” in your emails, texts, phone conversations and finally on dates. You must be rat ...